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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Suicide Attempts : Teenagers way of Escape



          In be half of the million teenagers nowadays my opinion about "Suicide attempts of teenagers" 
are to be read here. No offense to other people as well as other concern individuals who would disagree or agree with me. This is my personal opinion/thought regarding this topic.

         We are now on the stage of modernization. Too many changes are occurring in our world and at the same time we people too are facing so many problems. As everybody knows problems are not only carried by adults, parents and elders. Conflicts and struggles in life was also seen by young people. The audience or little once are also carrying the burdens. Yah, maybe your children were to young to understand things around him/her, but you never can tell.Nowadays children are better, they are smarter. Their mind are faster and they can catch up very quick. The little boy/girl that you are protecting and isolating from the real world might build his/her own world. You as a parent might cause the abnormalities in him/her emotion. Specially when you already build a barrier for him/her against the society just because your being insensitive. Or maybe you might be too kind to him/her that he/she take's that as an advantage to escape from your house and gone wild at somewhere..These are probably some reason why teenagers messed up and go out of their minds.



Imagine if every 20 min. 1 teen is dying for a none sense reason. What will happen to our world !!
If they are being mislead by adults then what will we expect on the future.

REASONS WHY TEENS COMMITTED SUICIDE :

1. Lack of attention --> Because of the less attention a teen is given , he/she is craving for it.  He/she is searching this attention from other people such as boyfriend/girlfriend or in a group of friends that somewhat sooner or later leave her/him hanging and causing him/her to attempt suicide.

2. Depression --> Due to the mixed emotion and frustrations , failures , struggles , and conflicts in teens life depression occur. During this stage a teen's mind is out of control. Her/his thinking is not proper and might cause him/her a great damage.

 

3. Unsocial --> Being unsocial causes a teen feels that he/she is alone and when you are alone , things or crazy things rather enters your mind. "EMO" thats the best term for it . Lack of social ties are the common cause of this.

4.  Pressure --> A teenager is always facing different problems and challenges everyday. Together with these are the pressure that the people around him/her is giving him/her. Upon carrying the responsibilities some might be to pressured and collapsed. They are the ones that tried escaping from the this pressure.

5. Loosing God -> For me this is the number one reason why teens and other people committed suicide. They are not that close to God or living without knowing God . These people Don't have the relationship to the Lord or any religious knowledge and have no activities associated to the churches or religious groups .
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Teenagers made suicides to try escaping the reality. Due to this reasons and many more that are not specifically mentioned , teenagers made their own way of escape.



    

19 comments:

Julie. -- said...

Good parenting is the best way to combat such problems in the society nowadays. Parents should impose certain rules at home and at the same time compromise with their children's needs. Be a friend to your child. Let him/her feel that you are his/her BFF and not just his/her parent.

Veronica Laurel said...

Suicide is neither a good thing or a bad thing if one understands the cycle of life.
There are lots of reasons why people choose to end their life with their own hands.
In such a way, others view it as a good thing since man is probably the worst beast to walk earth.
Yours is a good post, a little more research and grammar checking would brighten it.

maiylah said...

i believe that suicide is never an option. my own two cents... :)

melandria said...

i have been there and i know the feeling. i hope parents should know the signal if their children has emotional problems.

Gil Camporazo said...

The answer to stop teens' suicides is bringing the family together. Just like the old saying: "The family that prays together stays together." Every member of the family should do their part to attain family solidarity. The father should lead his family in righteousness with the support of his wife. The wife should compliment the responsibilities of his husband on their children. And the children should work hand in hand to strengthen their family in time of distress and adversity! And everybody should celebrate together the happiness, the success of their family well-being!

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Vimal Dwivedi said...

The answer to stop Teemage suicide rate is very hard and very simple ,hard in a way every parent should guide their childrens like a friend which indeed a very difficult and easy in a sense if parent will try then this can be stopped.

Angela Ricardo said...

Teenage suicide had been a problem for quite some time now. If parents would reach out it would make a lot of difference.

chrisair said...

I struggle also on my teen age but that doesn't give me an idea to do such things. Nowadays kasi media din may kasalanan eh, pero sana sila na din sa sarili nila ang mag-adjust...

Clint Andrew said...

I'm a teenager but it didnt cross my mind to suicide even though I encounter serious problems. Siguro we just need to be heard and understand.

sarj said...

I guess parang phase ito ng teenager..my hope is that parents should be the ones who will be there ALWAYS for their kids para this will not cross their minds

tatess said...

parent plays an important role on childrens life from the moment they were born and should not stop there .proper guidance ,happy life and most important is to have God at the center of our live

michymichymoo said...

I was a teenager once and I was really tough. Try reading 13 Reasons Why. It's about teenage suicide.

sionee- kindlehearts.com said...

gosh. I got scared after reading this. Actually, I've read a lot of articles re: teenager suicide before coz most of my Korean students are teenagers. But it just sunk into my head now coz my little one is growing up fast. Thanks for sharing.:)

Ads said...

Aside from our children's peers, we (parents) should also serve as one of their friends so that they would be open to talk to us about their problems. This is one thing I learned from my mother. Though she gets angry to us she also acts as our closest friend so it would be easier for us to approach her and confide our personal issues.

Sining Factory said...

The family is the first person that we can approach in case this is happening to us. We should be open with our problems. If we know someone who has this problem, try to listen to them and always show that you care. They have to realize the value of life. Let us help them winning the battle of life. :)

Rochelle Caparas said...

family must be the sole responsible for most of the teenager suicide. bonding and family time is really important

Little miss said...

Thanks for the very meaningful comments you guys left :))

Jonathan said...

Suicide never is the answer. Life has a lot more surprises, and we grow because of the challenges we face.

The answer is simple to live up to your potential, and believe that you are destined for something more.

Fastest Way to Make Money Online said...

Maybe its me or I am watching too much TV. But I would like to agree with this. Through the internet the kids nowadays been a place that they look for attention, unluckily some ends up the opposite result.

Kids just needs attention and care from their parents and sometimes they do it because of that. So yeah, it's sad.

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